Discovering Dildos

Dildos have long been a favorite in the world of sex toys, offering individuals and couples the chance to experience full penetration and internal stimulation. With their wide variety of shapes and sizes, dildos can cater to many different preferences and desires. Many are specifically designed to complement your internal contours, making them great for G-spot discovery. Paired with a vibrator, they can even help you experience the much-sought-after blended orgasm.

Once seen as toys exclusively for vulva owners, dildos are actually fantastic for everyone—regardless of gender. How? Everyone has a butt! Anal dildos and strap-on dildos are especially popular for hitting the prostate (for those with penises) and exploring anal pleasure (for anyone with an anus). If you're interested in anal play, just make sure to choose a dildo with a wide, flared base to prevent over-insertion and keep things safe.

Which Dildo Should I Choose?

Dildos are among the most popular and long-lasting sex toys on the market, with a history that dates back thousands of years (yes, there’s even evidence of stone and camel dung dildos from 28,000 years ago!). Thankfully, today’s dildos come in a variety of much more appealing materials, including silicone and glass.

Dildos also come in many shapes, sizes, textures, and functions, making it easy to find something suited to your taste. If you’re a beginner, a slimline dildo is a great place to start. As you get more comfortable, you can explore vibrating dildos, realistic dildos, and even large dildos for those who enjoy more girth.

How to Use a Dildo With a Partner

Dildos aren’t just for solo play—they can be a fun and versatile addition to partnered sex as well. One of the most exciting uses is double penetration, allowing you and your partner to experience new levels of pleasure without needing to involve a third person. When engaging in anal play, just remember to use plenty of anal-safe lubricant to keep everything smooth and comfortable.

Double-ended dildos are another excellent option for couples of any gender. They can be used vaginally or anally, allowing you and your partner to face each other while pleasuring each other at the same time. You can also use double-ended dildos solo—just opt for a flexible one for ease of use.

For those interested in pegging, strap-on dildos offer an exciting way to explore role-reversal or provide deep vaginal penetration in lesbian couples. Pegging can bring a fresh dynamic to the bedroom, allowing for deeper connection and experimentation.